How can I encourage my husband to be more "present"? - pogo is getting married

We married only two years ago and I already feel like it was thirty years. What happened to this desire, I'm married, romantic type? It is a failure, I think. Even if he is at home, it is not really "at home". Once through the door, the lights and TV on the couch playing pogo into the laptop. I do not care to do for awhile, because I know you need time off after her at work all day, but after days and these days, it irritates me. When asked whether he would talk or play cards or something more active and "serious relationship" He says he does not want to be loved, feel, or "not now." You're constantly working to check their e-mail and work phone and a person possessed. I love him to deathAnd tried to tell him to do so, but he will end up a defensive and angry. I do not want to be a woman Naggy. I just want to take an active interest in me. I feel very good for him and cook him all his favorite foods, but I get to the point where I ask to myself: "What's the point?" Is everything so seriously. "He said. Silver, work, children () from his previous marriage. I drive him bubble baths and back rub. You can not talk to myself? I understand, but I think this is starting my emotions effect. I am pleased with the Executive Board and depressed, especially because I am constantly asked, "Why not me? You "think you are selfish? Is there anything I can do to encourage him back to put" @ #% Ingfrom the top down, turn off the TV and spend time with his wife. I think I am the last priority.